I was the pastor of an IFB church 8 years ago. I had been at the church for about 9 months when my wife was caught being unfaithful, which over a years time led to a terrible divorce. When the divorce happened, I received phone call after phone call that I had failed God and the calling on my life because I had allowed my now ex wife to be unfaithful. They told me I could still preach as long as I remained unmarried and celibate for the rest of my life. I’m remarried now, and have 2 children. My wife and I have been married for almost 4 years, together for 5. I still struggle with what they told me, and don’t know how to get passed it